I made a MISTAKE, please DON'T do it.

Hope you are healthy and working on your dreams,

So far, this is one of the honest and brutal newsletters that comes directly from my heart.

I don’t know how to frame it from my brain so that you will understand, but here is the thing.

Please don’t get involved in a lot of things, which means multi-tasking. You might say I can work up to 2 am; I am very energetic, I am very clever, etc.. but listen. I was the person who worked till 3 - 4 am every day in every aspect, like marketing, dealing with international clients, and building things.

Yesterday, my friend got a fever and was on bed rest for one week. I was the only person taking care of our offline business, and yesterday, I worked like hell, honestly. Maybe most of you don’t know that I’ve taken the courier franchise because it might help the delemate app I’m working on.

So when I was bringing the deliveries or going with my delivery boy, and you better know how the people are here, who have gutka in their mouth and don’t know how to speak properly and when I just realize that minute “what the heck you are doing Tarak?”. You were the person who spoke to founders and some brilliant minds from all around the world, and I really had a feeling that I was stuck here and thought, as soon as possible, I need to get rid of this man.

That moment was just an eye-opener for me. I am saying this because I failed to say NO back then, and now I’m paying the price.

I always say that you should learn how to say NO; you will get a lot more freedom and time to work on yourself by saying NO. Sometimes, I don’t have time to write this newsletter as well because back then, I was so ambitious and wanted to do some crazy stuff, and so I said YES to many things, and now I’m paying the price, and if you see even my podcasts, I am not doing properly because of the time.

It’s easy to be busy with a lot of stuff like me, and it's easy to concentrate on one thing.

I said YES to some projects, so what I need to be productive is just to block my calendar and do the focused work on that time, thats the only solution that I found and working.

At first, it's easy for me, but if things are working and getting in shape, you need to dedicate a lot of time here, and you don’t have, so this is my personal experience that I’m telling if you want to start something then just go for it until you see it through.

The problem is here: I can work up to 3 am every day, but I don’t have the energy to work. All my energy is draining down, and it’s really hard for me to be productive these days.

One of our subscribers asked me Tarak, what are you doing? Actually, you never told; here it is:

• I run Skale with AI; It’s a marketing Agency where we help businesses bring more clients ( we had a collaboration with a UK Real estate Agent ) [ Stopped this completely because of time ]

• I am developing an app called DeleMate, Which is a peer-to-peer delivery app where users can earn money while traveling.

• I am working with a UK senior scientist to build a marketplace for a specific Niche.

• I have a Courier Franchise.

• I do Podcasts and write Newsletters.

• Btw, I read books every day.

You might think, wow, but when it comes to contributing to every project, it takes a lot of time, hard work, and dedication.

I think this is the first time that I revealed to everyone what I was doing. No one knows till now. I don’t know, but I feel it’s indeed worth sharing with you since I believe there are people who are genuinely learning something from this newsletter.

I made the mistake of choosing a lot of things at one time; please don’t make this mistake; otherwise, you will suffer like me to find time and energy.

Another thing I want to talk about is “What do you really want?” If you are clear about this, you are ahead of 99% of the people.

Just ask this question: what do you really want?

• Is it Money?

• Is it a Good Relationship?

• Is it Happiness?

• Is it social Status?

Every person is different, and they have different choices.

If you know what you really want, then you won’t chase the unusual stuff, and you will be more clear and happy than ever before.

As I said, I was searching for this question: What do I really want? Is it money? Of course, money is important, but personally, for me, happiness and freedom come first.

I don’t want millions of dollars when I’m 60. I don’t know if I will be alive at that age or not, but until I’m alive, I want to live a life happily with freedom, which means that no one should control my life.

If I want to go and live in a van for one month, I just go for it. If I want to do something crazy, I’ll just do it. And I know, and I can feel from the bottom of my heart, that I’ll have financial freedom at some point in my life. ( since I’m having Equity and I’m not a Employee 🙂 )

I thought, let’s see what It looks like if I work for money for six months, and I’m trying to be like that much as possible, but I don’t know, I may quit. If I want only the money, then I might be doing a job now that pays me more than a lakh per month.

I feel very happy, and I get a good feeling when I am writing this newsletter. Otherwise, I wouldn’t do this 😄, definitely. It is not for the money but for myself.

I have a lot of things to share, but I don’t know is it right time to share it or not.

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Remember, Take Care of Your Health.

Okay then, See ya later, my friend.

Tarak Ram